Doing what other people wants you to do

The worst thing that can ever happen to you, is doing what other people wants you to do when you don’t see the need for it, it’s so terrible you can lose your life in the process…

Doing what others wants you to do is like doing what you hate constantly to achieve what you don’t like to please people.

Like aforementioned in my previous articles, everything has advantages and disadvantages, even the worst thing that can ever happen to you.

So here are the advantages and disadvantages of doing what other people wants you to do:

Advantages

1. Social harmony: When you do what others want, you can maintain social harmony and avoid conflicts.
2. Building relationships: Accommodating others’ desires can strengthen relationships and build trust.
3. Learning opportunities: By doing what others want, you may discover new experiences, skills, or interests.
4. Sense of belonging: When you fit in with others’ expectations, you may feel a sense of belonging and connection.
5. Reduced stress: Avoiding conflicts and meeting others’ expectations can reduce stress and anxiety.

Disadvantages

1. Loss of personal identity: Constantly doing what others want can lead to a loss of personal identity and autonomy.
2. Unfulfilled desires: Ignoring your own desires and dreams can lead to unfulfilled potential and regret.
3. Resentment and frustration: Doing what others want without considering your own needs can lead to resentment and frustration.
4. Lack of personal growth: When you prioritize others’ expectations over your own, you may miss out on opportunities for personal growth and self-improvement.
5. Compromised values and principles: Doing what others want without considering your own values and principles can lead to compromised integrity and self-respect.

The Key is Balance

Now you see, life is kinda confusing but it’s not, you just need to use your senses more to grasp the complexity of life and you will understand why thing’s are programmed the way they are.

Doing what others wants you to do is your choice, it’s a matter of taking responsibility over your business or leaving the responsibility for others to do, the choices are always yours.

I choose to do what I love Naturally & not what other people wants me to do, while I may listen to them and take in some advice and discard some advice from people, I take full responsibility over my actions in Life and that’s why I’m richest self-made designer till date.